I wish” allows us to express desires or regrets about situations unlike reality. This handy tool comes with three different ways to build your wish:

1. Past Simple

When using “I wish” with the past simple tense, it expresses a desire for something or someone to be different right now or in the future.

  • I wish things were different, but this is the way they are.
  • I wish I had enough money to help you.
  • I wish I could be there for you tomorrow.

2. Past Perfect

With the past perfect tense, “I wish” allows us to express regret for something we didn’t do in the past.

  • I wish I hadn’t quit my job two years ago.
  • I wish we hadn’t wasted all that money.

3. Someone would

To gently nudge someone towards changing an annoying behavior, try saying “I wish [person/thing] would [infinitive].”

  • I wish you would stop biting your nails. I hate it when you do it.
  • I wish it would stop raining. It’s been three days!

If only

“If only” carries the same wish as “I wish,” but with a stronger punch.

  • If only I was/were a bit taller! (First type)
  • If only you had followed my advice. (Second type)
  • If only you would make a bit of an effort. You are wasting your life! (Third type)

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